Sex has slowly become an embarrassment due to my premature ejaculation. Can anyone recommend somewhere where I could find a ‘discreet’ remedy?

Sex has slowly become an embarrassment due to my premature ejaculation. Can anyone recommend somewhere where I could find a ‘discreet’ remedy?

Sex has slowly become an embarrassment due to my premature ejaculation. Can anyone recommend somewhere where I could find a ‘discreet’ remedy?
PS: no doctors, no pills.

Sex has slowly become an embarrassment due to my premature ejaculation. Can anyone recommend somewhere where I could find a ‘discreet’ remedy?

I recently got married and am trying to lead a normal sexual life but I am facing problems in controlling ejaculation and most of the times I am not able to attain full erection. I start with foreplay and by the time I am ready for the actual intercourse, I ejaculate, thereby causing me constant embarrassment. Since I do not have any prior sexual experience, I thought this is a temporary phase and would get resolved. But I have tried 4 or 5 times and most of the time I either eject the fluid even before the intercourse or as soon as I insert. Now I am hesitant to indulge in sexual activities and this is causing a lot of misunderstanding between me and my wife. Please advise, is this a common problem or do I need to undergo any medication? I do not have any medical problem (history) and I am not under any medication. I work for long hours, could that be a problem? As I remember from my past experience, when ever I used to masturbate, I used to get full erection and could with hold the secretion of the fluid. Is there any serious problem, I do not have anyone to consult?