Gabriel J asked:
I started having sex for the first time with my girlfriend of almost a year. And the first we tried to have sex I ejaculated in like in seconds. But the the second time we tried I like lasted for like almost an hour =). And then I did again and i ejaculated in seconds again =(! So yea i dont know wats wrong. Also the first and second time I was using a special condom that contains a mild desensitizer. So I dont get whats wrong?
You’re over excited. Just pregame it or try a second round after a short makeout break.
Your ability to delay is controlled by your mind, not your penis. You need to learn to control “the point of no return” by thinking of something else or by pinching the end of your penis right before you ejaculate. By using different techniques you will teach yourself to delay the ejaculation.
Good luck