I recently got married and am trying to lead a normal sexual life but I am facing problems in controlling ejaculation and most of the times I am not able to attain full erection. I start with foreplay and by the time I am ready for the actual intercourse, I ejaculate, thereby causing me constant embarrassment. Since I do not have any prior sexual experience, I thought this is a temporary phase and would get resolved. But I have tried 4 or 5 times and most of the time I either eject the fluid even before the intercourse or as soon as I insert. Now I am hesitant to indulge in sexual activities and this is causing a lot of misunderstanding between me and my wife. Please advise, is this a common problem or do I need to undergo any medication? I do not have any medical problem (history) and I am not under any medication. I work for long hours, could that be a problem? As I remember from my past experience, when ever I used to masturbate, I used to get full erection and could with hold the secretion of the fluid. Is there any serious problem, I do not have anyone to consult?
You are NOT alone. It happens to many men. But there are techniques that usually solve the problem. My first experience lasted about fifteen seconds – or less – and it just went away—- soon. Good luck
time is what u need man learn control alot of guys masterbate it helps with control sometimes but who knows alot of people are different
this is what you do. jack off, but pay attetntion to what is happening, learn how to control your ejaculation. speed up, slow down, stop. learn how your penis wants to feel. get intun with your self. Then go make love to your wife
Since you mentioned that you are newly wed and without any prior sexual experience, premature ejaculation is understandable. There is nothing to worry about here, all you need is more practice. Try not to think hard and instead have fun. Have good communication with your partner. There is nothing to be ashamed of, instead think of it as a chanllenge to give pleasure to your partner and obviousaly have fun in the course.
There are a lot of other ways to please women. So first start by being comfortable with her in your daily life and then you will also be able to expirment in the bed too.
Using lubricants might help too, as it will allow easy penetration and less friction so less excitment. Also try different positions. Men are supposed to have more control when they are on bottom and women is on top.
There is no need to worry Just visit & see your solution After this you will forget Premature ejaculation in your life.
use latex durex long lasting condom initially and then you will be able to control yourself. This will definately help you.
you are not alone many guys face this…bilogically ejacultion happens in 1 to 2 mins…its normal…but if we want to have long duration..we can use special condoms.which help in this.even get some new positions from kamasutra..they will hepl you.no need to worry …its not a major problem.
Stress, anxiety, weak PC muscle, and inexperience are all causes of premature ejaculation. This is completely normal, because it’s sad to say that most men suffer from it. Relax, don’t feel pressured to perform, and have fun with it, and the problem will fix itself.
But if that doesn’t work than do an exercise called “kegels”, this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you’ll have the ability to last as long as you want.
Dear there is no subsitute of Specialist Advice. PE is a complex problem which needs to be evaluated in detail before advice of any specific solution. Different people have different grades and variations in PE so the solution or treatement goes differently. Most of the people require counselling and interactions so to clear up their brain blocks which are psychological hinderence in PE patients.
In practice we have seen most of the SELF threapies fail to produce any results.
Medications are only necessary in severe cases and after evaluation of case
Dr Anil
Sr Sex Specialist
Im sorry to say u have herridopeapleenalitice its a rare condition, u may need massive surgery. resulting in the loss of your penis. good luck